| Guidelines for First-Time Foster Homes 1. Thank you! For offering your time and home to foster a dog in need. We appreciate it, & without you, we could not help these dogs! 2. You’re not on your own! We know you’ve had previous experience with dogs and are willing to roll with what comes, but a foster dog can bring challenges and surprises, and we’re here to help you along the way, let us know if you have questions/problems. 3. We value your input! We do as much as possible to find out about the dog before accepting it into the program, from surrendering owners, shelter workers, & principally our own temperament assessment. But that’s not always a complete picture and you, living with the dog, are an invaluable resource we rely on too. Your observations about the dog – everything from its general behaviour, training level, likes/dislikes, energy patterns, interactions with people & other animals, how well he walks on leash, how well he travels in car, eating habits, etc. – all help us to choose the best adoption match and give us information to pass on to the adopting family. So keep us informed even if you’re not having problems (& if you can, make us some notes!). 4. Adjustment Problems: Fostering requires patience and tolerance. Even a well-behaved & well-trained dog can have problems adjusting to a stranger in a strange house, especially in the first few days, such as accidents from stress or simply not being sure where & how to exit the house to do his business. He may not be willing to go in front of you (if dogs have been scolded for going), or may be afraid to go without you, or to go out on his own for fear of abandonment outside, you might have to go out with him for awhile until he’s ready to do so on his own. Either way, praise him for going for first few days to reinforce house training from the start. He may also have changed food & have diarrhea or vomiting from this, or from stress, or loss of appetite, lethargy, depression, anxiety. He may have destructive behaviour or separation anxiety. Don’t expect too much too fast, you have to take some cues from the dog & take it in stride. If problems are severe or last longer than 2 days, call us to discuss. 5. Be cautious at all times. And in all circumstances until the dog has been adopted. No matter how well-behaved or trustworthy the dog appears to be, every dog is an unknown to some extent & always err on side of assuming there’s a risk in introducing the dog to people, especially children, & to other animals. Apart from concern for safety & welfare of all concerned, we are non-profit and don’t have money to spare, we can’t afford avoidable medical, property damage, or other costs. Specifically, don’t let the dog go off-leash except in your own fenced yard (including a friend’s yard if there’s a dog off leash) & don’t take him into a leash-free park - if he is injured by, or injures, another dog, or person, we may be held responsible. Don’t leave the dog unattended with people, especially children. It is usually best not to take the dog to other houses until you have established a reasonable continuity with the dog yourself (varies with age & training of dog). 6. We value your help in training the dog if needed! Even if the dog is only with you a short time, you can make a difference - just teaching a puppy to sit & give paw helps adopters see the potential in the dog. If you observe behaviour problems, give us a call. If the dog is crated at night, while you’re out, or for rest periods, don’t use the crate as punishment, instead, give him a time-out in a room or outside. But don’t crate or isolate the dog for excessive periods (dependent on age of dog, call us for guidelines), & be sure to let us know if you are needing to do so. Some dogs have come to us from situations where they were over crated or isolated, with resulting behaviour problems that may increase in severity. 7. The “5-day & 21-day rules”: Day 5 is generally when you will start to see the “real” dog’s personality begin to emerge as his confidence in his new environment grows & he’s had a chance to recharge. This may be longer for dog who is elderly or has known health or behaviour issues. So don’t assume you “know” the dog or have seen it all & relax your authority or routines too quickly. For longer-term fosters, the 21-day “rule” is another milestone, and applies to both behaviour & health issues, ex. 12-year old foster in poor health from neglect took 4 weeks to be able to go 8 hours at night without an accident, but by 8 weeks, could go over 10 hours. 8. Leaving Him Home Alone: Protect the dog from accidents (like stairs) & protect your property from damage by the dog. If the dog is used to being crated, then do so for reasonable periods. If crating is not an option, leave him in a closed room or area of your house such as an interior hall where he can move around but not access other areas of house. (Use a different area than for time-outs so dog doesn’t associate you going out with him being disciplined.) The dog should be able to see you’ve gone out but don’t make a big deal about leaving or coming home (which can increase separation anxiety). If you have other animals, separate them while out, no matter how well they seem to get along while you’re there, you can’t be sure how they’ll be when you’re out. 9. Car Travel: Crating the dog is safest for all concerned but if not possible, restraining in place with leash may be an option. However, bottom line is until you know how they are in the car, don’t risk an accident from a dog climbing all over you or distracting you. Experiment in the driveway or with a short trip around the block. And even if well-behaved in car, some turn into escape artists the minute you open a door, so it is advisable to keep leash on the dog in car so you have something to grab. If you have a garage, a good precaution is to only allow dog in & out of car within closed garage. Do not leave the dog unattended in the car or with children. 10. Veterinary Care: Our dogs have either seen a vet within reasonable time before surrender & we have their records, &/or we arrange to take them within a short time of their arrival (we appreciate it if you can take them to meet us at the vet). However, if you think there is a medical problem, let us know right away. Do not take the dog to a vet on your own; all veterinary care must be pre-approved as to the vet and anticipated expense. If you have a veterinary emergency, make your best efforts to reach Joan first immediately, secondly Joanna, but if in your judgment the dog is in imminent distress, don’t wait, get him in & try to reach us before anything beyond first aid emergency treatment is carried out. 11. Getting Too Attached &/or Wanting to adopt: It happens! You wouldn’t be fostering if you didn’t love dogs! It’s understandable, but we do need you and so do the dogs, so try to resist because it happens too often that fosters want to adopt the first dog they foster & then stop fostering. And occasionally it happens that a foster doesn’t want to adopt but can’t quite “let go” when decisions have to be made about placements. So, if you have been thinking about adopting “if the right dog comes along”, then it’s a good idea to write down your idea of the “right dog” now and look at it again if you find yourself wavering. It also helps to focus your thinking on what you are doing for the dog’s life & not what the dog is doing for your life. There is no shortage of dogs, there is always another one waiting for a foster home, wait for the right one to adopt. If you can make it past the first dog, you’ve won a big victory in the attachment battle, & it does get easier as you begin to experience a variety of dogs coming & going. But if Mr. or Ms. Right really does come along, do speak up, and we hope you’ll continue to foster or volunteer in other ways. 12. Finding An Adopter: Please remember, that’s our job. You can tell people you are fostering the dog and it may be available for adoption. You can encourage anyone interested to apply, but remain non-committal. There may be reasons related to the dog’s history why a home that seems right to you might not be. |
